Do You Have an Intense Fear of Bees?
If you or a member of your family have a strong fear of bees, you are not alone. Many people suffer from an intense fear of being near bees of any kind. This can be especially troubling if you are someone who enjoys being outdoors. And, if you have aspirations of having a hive of your own, this condition must be dealt with quickly. Developing a better understanding of bees may help you become less afraid.
All living things share a place in the world – even insects. We share the environment with bees, wasps and other flying insects.
It is only natural that we will come into close contact on occasion. And, many of us will remember the childhood experience of a bee sting . Perhaps that is where your fear of bees began.
Showing respect and reservation when working around stinging insects is just plain good sense. But, its okay to be afraid too.
There is a difference between being scared of getting stung vs feeling panic when you just see one nearby.
Do not be ashamed of your bee anxiety, getting to understand insects better may be of some help. Knowing the nature of different bees gives you valuable information to avoid conflict.
And yes, there will be times when we need to get rid of bees in a location – such as a playground. But often we can let nature take its course and all live together.
What is a Fear of Bees Called?
It is common sense to be concerned with preventing stings. Bee stings hurt. So, it is only natural to avoid pain.
Few folks intentionally go towards bees. Well, we beekeepers do, but we are a strange group.
If you have a very strong emotional reaction to bees or wasps, you may be experiencing apiphobia. Apiphobia (the term Melissophobia is also used) describes an irrational fear of bees.
If seeing a calm honey bee gathering nectar from a nearby flower causes your heart to race, you may be experiencing Apiphobia.
Apiphobia Can Cause One to Stay Inside
If your fear of bees causes you to alter your lifestyle, it may be time to consider some changes. Everyone needs to be able to enjoy warm Summer days.
Being afraid of bees to an extreme causes some people to avoid outdoor activities. They miss out on family picnics and don’t go to sporting events that they would otherwise enjoy.
Bees and wasps do love to attend picnics – especially in late Summer. But they are there for you. Most bees are attracted to sweet drinks and food available at these events.
Learn where bees and wasps tend to congregate. Stay away from park trash cans and other high risk areas but this doesn’t mean you have to stay inside all Summer.
What Causes Someone to Develop a Fear of Bees?
Genetic & Learned Behavior Bee Phobias
Is this condition genetic? Is someone more likely to develop a severe fear of bees if their parents have it?
Perhaps, this is so. But, there is no strong research to confirm this to be a factor.
Learned phobias definitely do affect the reaction of others. If a parent runs screaming from every flying insect, small children often mimic the behavior.
When Mom or Dad “loses it” the kids certainly feel it is something to worry about. Fear learned in childhood can develop into panic attacks later in life.
Well Meaning Adults Teach Children to Be Afraid of Bees
If you are a caregiver for children, it is your job to protect them. You want to do everything in your power to prevent their pain and discomfort.
Unfortunately, this leads some adults to teach children to be afraid of bees. By having excessive reactions to a foraging honey bee, the adults encourage the child to be afraid.
This create fear and anxiety in small children whenever they come into an area with foraging bees.
We certainly don’t want toddlers to be trying to catch bees with their bare hands. However, older children can be taught to respectfully observe working insects.
Unless the child is allergic, watching bees work can be a very educational. Even young children can learn to tell the difference between bees and wasps. A respect for insects lessens their chance of stings.
Killer Bees News Stories Create Fear
News stories about Killer Bees created great public concern in regards to honey bees. These ” Killer Bees” are actually a hybrid bee.
They are offspring of more defensive bees from Africa cross-bred with our honey bees.
“Africanized Bees” are a real problem in some areas of the US. However, they are not the killer bees of the horror movies.
Though they have been responsible for human deaths, the vast majority of bees are not Killer bees.
If you live in an area that has Africanized Bees, contact your state agriculture department. This is the best source of information on how to protect yourself and your family.
Is a Fear of Bees and Wasps Truly Irrational?
Not at all. Having a fear of bees or wasps is a reasonable emotion. Receiving many stings can cause great harm and even death.
A few stings will only cause pain and discomfort unless you are allergic to bees. With proper bee sting treatment, you should recover fully in a couple of days.
But, it is natural to want to protect your body from harm even when it is not a life-threatening event.
Overcome Your Fear of Bees
Learn to Understand the Different Types of Insects
The more you know about bees and wasps, the less chance there is of you getting stung. Learn to recognize wasps and various bees. Some insects are more aggressive or defensive than others.
If you know how to identify the different types of nests wasps live in, it is possible to give them a wide berth.
If you see an honey bee hive nearby, stay a respectable distance away. Both bees and wasps will protect a nest of young. Stay away.
When you understand more about the insects you encounter outside, the chances of stings decreases. This gives you the knowledge you need to enjoy being outdoors and still feel comfortable.
Exposure Therapy to Your Phobia
Another method of dealing with your fear is exposure therapy. Instead of running- screaming with fear the next time you see a honey bee, stand still and watch.
Most honey bees will happily continue to forage while we observe them. As long as you are not near a nest, many bees to do not mind your observation.
After making sure there is not nest close by, try sitting in a chair near some flowers bees love to visit. Bees are very industrious and fun to watch.
Avoid swatting at the bees. If you begin to feel nervous or upset, get up and walk away.
Don’t scream and swat at bees. This can be viewed as an aggressive reaction and may cause the bees to want to retaliate.
In time, you will be able to move closer-but still remain a respectful distance away.
Final Thoughts of Having a Fear of Bees
For those of you with a severe bee phobia, you may never have a desire to become a beekeeper. But, who knows – it might be something you could consider someday with a good mentor.
Regardless, overcoming some of your phobia about bees will enhance your enjoyment of outdoor living.